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Now What? Why Are We Here?

Part 2 – Now What? Why Are We Here?

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If You Knew That What We Call “Life” Were But A Game How Would You Choose To Play?

by Tonya M. Tronco

This is the second part of this series, for part 1 click here.

Part 1 – Understanding

Now what? Why are we here?

Simply put we are here to experience. It’s that simple. Spirit is all that there is such as knowledge, wisdom, love, peace, etc, and everything is created out of Spirit. Since Spirit Is All That There Is, there is nothing that is not Spirit, therefore Spirit can choose to be and experience anything. 

Why does God, or All That There Is, have a desire for experience if it already is everything? Just because you are everything or have the potential for anything does not mean that there is a media for that to be played out, just think of the bright child that grows up without love and encouragement. That child needs a medium for which to explore life and all her potential. God, The All Knowing, decided that this was so for Him. In order for all of His potential to be explored, He needed a method for various aspects of Himself to play, explore and experience. He needed another realm or dimension for this to take place and the ability for His different characteristics or aspects of himself to interact. Furthermore, since it is impossible to experience yourself as loving without anyone or anything to bestow that love upon, a Divine relationship was created.

 Spirit created an extension of himself, what we refer to as the Son of God, Christ Consciousness, or Spirit Consciousness. This Spirit Consciousness is the Divine Offspring because it is endowed with the same abilities as The Father. It is a Creator as well and of course it is Spirit since Spirit is All That There Is.

 Of course, the physical realm or world was also created and since Spirit Is All That There Is, this newly created physical world was Spirit too? This physical world is one where it is possible to experience anything that is desired, and it is Good.

As stated above, it is impossible to experience yourself as Loving without anyone or anything to bestow that love upon; relationships are also part of this physical world. Relationships with both animal and plant life but with the Earth itself are also extremely important. Everything is Spirit, Everything.

 We too are Spirit born of Spirit/Christ Consciousness. We, collectively in our Highest form are the Son of God. Most of us do not see it that way because we identify ourselves with our physical consciousness and not our Spirit/High Consciousness.

 The physical self has a soul with it’s own personality or aspect of the Divine. We are playing in this physical world what our Spirit or the part of us that is Spirit Consciousness is choosing to experience. Spirit, the Father bestowed upon his offspring, Free Will so the Spirit Consciousness chooses the desired experience. This physical world is a playground. Nothing ultimately harms Spirit. Spirit can not be harmed. The physical self just like a character in a video game can be harmed but the real player goes on ready to play again tomorrow. It is the same thing. The physical world is the Ultimate Virtual Reality Game or Ultimate Video Game. Nothing that you do to yourself or to another has damaging effect on the Spirit World, nothing. Just like on a video game if we goof, we are able to replay and replay as often as it takes to attain mastery of what we desire to experience. There is always a higher level of Spirit to attain until ultimately we live, breathe and experience Spirit Consciousness in the physical world.

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As always – to your prosperity,

Tonya

(Adam’s Mom)

Tonya M. Tronco is the founder of Adamaenterprises and President of  a powerful healing system called Transformative Ch’i,  with protocols that facilitate the removal of spiritual, emotional, and physical  blockages to allow the fulfillment of a joyous, prosperous and healthy life. Email her at tonya@adamaenterprises.com  or tonya@transchi.com

Braveheart – Are We Teaching Our Children What They Need?

How to Love More

On Loving More

By Brendon Burchard
Founder, Experts Academy, and author of Life’s Golden Ticket

My wife Denise has taught me a lot about love.

We married in June 2008 after dating for five years. I’ve always been slow.

One year later, there’s nothing slow about our lives. My business — helping others find and share their voices — has quadrupled. We’ve moved to Portland. Denise has left her old job and is opening a new business herself. I became an uncle. My family lost our beloved father.

It’s been a remarkable year, as trying and exciting and sad and happy as any other of my life.

Through it all, I’ve been blessed to have Denise by my side. She is the kind of woman who makes you feel like the center of the world, like everything is joyous, like it’s all okay, like you are so lucky to be alive.

Denise has taught me a lot about love and I thought I’d share it with you here. Why?

Saint Francis of Assisi said where there is hatred we must sow love. So in a time when our media is fixated on showing the most uncivil and unremarkable people vying for attention for their extreme and marginalizing agendas, I say let’s all light this world with love.

We need it. Our children need it.

With that in mind, here are three keys to cultivating more love in your relationships, which I’ve learned from Denise.

(If you’re not in a relationship, and want to find your kindred spirit, see our friends at Soulmates. They help people find people like us: those searching for depth, meaning, consciousness, and life-long learning).

3 Keys to Cultivating Love

– 1. Be More Present –

Jesse Jackson said that the youth of today need our presence, not our presents. I’ve learned the same from Denise about anyone we love. Being present means being in the moment with your loved ones, not distracted by to-dos, TVs or passing thoughts.

I’ve learned that giving full attention to the moment and the one you’re with is the fastest way to ignite spontaneity, understanding, and attraction in a relationship.

To be present:

1. Focus your entire being on on your loved one,
2. Open yourself to their experience without judgment,
3. Exude appreciation and vibrancy, and
4. Don’t let distraction break the connection.

– 2. Be More Patient –

Patience is the only path to understanding, even if it’s a more meandering path than we often wish it to be.

Almost all conflict arises out of stress, and stress most often arises from hurry. “Hurry less, listen more” is great advice for curing conflict and building depth in relationships.

Being patient enough to hear (and understand) someone’s viewpoint and feedback is a lost art.

Next time you’re with your loved one, show patience by:

1. Being fully present and not interrupting their statements.
2. Asking more questions.
2. Waiting longer after they speak to share your own perspective.
3. Asking yourself, “Does this person, who I love deeply, feel heard and appreciated in this moment?”

– 3. Be More Purposeful –

Most people barrel through their relationships haphazardly – without much intention given to creating a remarkable relationship.

Denise has taught me to focus on our relationship and think about building it as much as I do my business or any other area of our lives. She clearly takes the time to think about our relationship and how to make it, us, great.

Creating great relationships and cultivating real love starts with deciding to do so. That’s what I mean by being purposeful.

These days I often find myself thinking, “How can I bring even more joy and adoration to my loved ones?” I’m quite sure this question is inspired by my wife asking herself the same question.

At the end of our lives, we will readily remember what kind of relationships we created.

Did we live and love purposefully to create vibrant, joyous, and deeply caring and connected relationships?

Or did we forget to consistently find and exude love in all our busyness?

I hope these quick lessons — be more present, patient and purposeful — serve you in cultivating loving, legendary relationships.

With love,

– Brendon Burchard
Author, Life’s Golden Ticket

ps. Love begins with connecting. Connect with your loved ones today. Find a lover if you don’t have one. Just spread the energy of love everywhere you go. We need more beacons out there.

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