Is There A Pattern In My Life?

by: Tonya M. Tronco

Is there a pattern in my life can be a question heard by most for one recurring thing or another. For many of us, certain elements continue to appear and resurface throughout our lifetime forming a pattern in our existence. Take for example relationships. Let’s say that relationships are difficult for a certain individual named Steve. A continuing thread in Steve’s life may be that he may have difficulty making and keeping friends. There are many variables in this, but perhaps Steve tries too hard, and therefore turns people off by appearing too desperate, clingy, needy, or just plain too much. This may or may not be the case, but subconsciously Steve may have a low self worth issue and may or may not see himself as likeable. Subliminally he may send out messages such as:

 “I know I’m not all that great, but if I try too hard, then maybe you can accept me anyway.”

 Or

 “I’m not likeable. I don’t even like myself, but please, please like me anyway. P.S. I brought brownies.” 

 Things like this happen over and over again to Steve with the all too frequent rejection by others. Steve wonders why it keeps happening. After all he’s a nice guy.

 “Why can’t I have real friends?” and “Why can’t they see I’m a great guy?” are common thoughts to Steve while he wishes that someone would help him.

 The truth is that the Universe, Life or God is constantly giving us feedback in one form or another.  We just choose not to read the signs and continue to roam around lost, confused even blaming others and society. Steve may even find fault with everyone else but himself.

 “Well, you know. They’re just too shallow and snobby to appreciate a real guy down to earth guy like myself.”

 It’s time to get Steve’s head out of the clouds and read the signs. The signs always reflect what is going on in the inside or Steve’s inner self. God and the Universe are saying:

 “Hey, I’m showing you what’s going on. I’ve always been helping you. As soon as you’re ready to take notice, you’ll be able to start the process of transforming your life. The message for you is other people don’t like to hang out with you, because you don’t like to hang out with yourself. Other people don’t value you, because you don’t value yourself. They are in fact showing you what you need to work on in deep inside yourself in order to move forward in life. When you come to accept yourself, value yourself and truly love yourself, it will show and radiate from your inner being. People will automatically be drawn to you. You’ll meet True Friends, not just mere acquaintances. Remember You are A Part of Me which automatically gives You Worth. You have many gifts and talents that are just waiting to be expressed and released to the world. I repeat, if I Am Worth, and You Are A Part Of Me, Then You Are Worth Too.”

 This message is the same and transferable for every situation including prosperity and success. The kicker is that low self worth issues are involved with just about every scenario out there including crime and violent crime. So other than bolstering self worth, the key message here is that whatever Life presents to you, especially over and over is what you need to work on now in order to move into the next step along your journey. As always,

 Namasté

Tonya M. Tronco is the founder of Adamaenterprises and President of  a powerful healing system called Transformative Ch’i,  with protocols that facilitate the removal of spiritual, emotional, and physical  blockages to allow the fulfillment of a joyous, prosperous and healthy life. Email her at tonya@adamaenterprises.com  or tonya@transchi.com

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